to incinerate the lives of everyone you know.
The pathetic-looking creature at the corner isn't what you think it is. Not everything is as it seems.
Those who listen, be fair. Listen to both sides of the story. There're always two sides to everything. Like Adam and Eve. Yin and Yang. Heaven and Earth.
No, this is not rubbish. If you do not understand what this post is about, don't call it trash. Don't give things a label. Don't give people labels too, just 'cos they're not living in your valley of death.
Not everyone who moves on is truly happy. And if they are, then give them a chance to be. Everyone deserves to find their very own ray of sunshine. If yours is still hidden behind stormy clouds or whatever, then search for it in another piece of sky. Don't wither in self-pity and make it seem like somebody owes you something. Accept the facts, and move on.
Instead of searching for someone or deeming someone as worthy, make yourself worthy of that person first. Of any person. Don't waste your time blaming, 'cos no one is in the wrong here. What is wrong with being with someone who makes you happy? You're that selfish that you won't even give others a chance to discover what happiness they've found? And no, happiness is not crap. Even if it's short-lived, let it be. Let the one who chose that path to carry on. If it is worth his/her time, then let that person be. What might not mean much to you might mean a hell lot to another.
Don't judge, 'cos you never know what you might do/become if you, one day, walk in another's shoes.
Give yourself another go. Not everyone's relationship is smooth-sailing. Not even at the beginning or when you find a brand-new love. Trust me. Trust people around you. Be happy for the one who has found someone. And don't lose hope in finding that one person for yourself. You never know. You never, ever do.
